September 2010
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Dear Coke Talk: On bullshit drama. →
dearcoketalk:
I have a friend who is incredibly self conscious, and can only say bad things about herself. I’m constantly reassuring her that there’s nothing wrong with her, but its come to a point where I don’t know if I can be her psychiatrist anymore. If I stop helping her, though, I’m afraid she’ll hurt…
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“Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.”
– Coco Chanel
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On changing the subject.
dearcoketalk:
How can you tell a dear close friend that your not interested in listening their man drama without sounding like total cunt?
Look her in the eye and say, “Sweetheart, I love you, but we’re not going to talk about that right now.”
Be firm and polite, then promptly change the subject. She’s the one bringing bad vibes, and you’re just trying to keep the room positive.
If you come...
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Dear Coke Talk: On gifts with strings attached. →
I should have read this before my last birthday…
dearcoketalk:
Do you really think accepting gifts is okay even when you know they’re being used to buy a way into your affections?
It’s not just a dating thing either. I’ve had a casual acquaintances load me with expensive presents when they think (correctly) that I’m not really bonding with them, just to…
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“The suffering depends not upon the factual happenings, but upon the texture of...”
– Pandit Khrishna
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“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and...”
– Maria Robinson
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“Harboring resentments & grievances is like drinking poison & hoping it...”
– Nelson Mandela
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